Not your fault

Not your fault

You are not responsible for how people receive you. And. You are responsible for your intention and energy you project towards others. There is a balance between co-dependency (people pleasing, worrying about how to keep everyone happy and giving others power over how...
The plan

The plan

Sometimes, life does not show up according to the timeline we set for it. Sometimes life does entirely it’s own thing and we’re left thinking, ‘Wtf?!’. In these moments when I notice myself resisting what is, thinking it should be something...
Stop imagining

Stop imagining

Stop imagining what isn’t there.If you’re thinking more than one step ahead, stop. Controversial advice I know. Probably not as helpful if you’re flying a plane or some such thing. However, for everything else that’s going on in your head, if...
Judgement

Judgement

Sometimes forgiveness comes really easily to me, othertimes it requires consistent effort – to catch the judgemental thoughts, the times I’m attacking with my mind. So much of what we do is unconscious. It’s not until we decide we want to notice,...
Blocking happiness

Blocking happiness

I noticed last week that I have a tendency sometimes to limit my joy. Sometimes things are going great and I get a little niggle, a small voice that whispers, ‘but when will it go wrong?’I noticed that I was actually not fully leaning in to things or...