Every now and again I question if I’m doing ‘enough’ in the world; if I’m making enough ‘waves’ or big choices. There are people I’ve counselled and coached doing such incredible things in the world and I think for a minute, ‘should I be doing that?’

Maybe I should be building an empire, starting a family or building my own house in the woods? Here’s the thing: I just don’t want to.

I’m not scared. I don’t mind ‘failing’ – all that means is that something isn’t aligned right now. I just don’t want those things. There have been times in my life when I have and I’ve gone after them, but not now.

It makes me so happy to work with my clients one on one. I don’t want to spend less time with my clients and charge more in order to ‘maximise my profits’ and grow my business. I want to spend as much time as I can with my clients because I love my work and I love seeing first hand how incredible and resilient humans are!

It makes me so happy to be making a home in Wales again and creating foundations for whenever my next travel trip will happen.

I don’t want an empire. I don’t want a huge home or huge responsibilities. I want family and friends within hugging distance. I want trips in my van with my dog by the sea. I want to work with as many clients one on one as I can. I want to help people.

Whatever we want is perfect. It’s in the space of desire that we create the most loving energy. It’s where we get the most passionate, the most excited, and give the most to ourselves and the world. Whatever your ‘perfect’ looks like, it’s YOUR perfect. Don’t let anyone tell you it should be different.