Life Coaching and Counselling
be who you were meant to beFrom fear to love…
Welcome to my corner of the internet. Thank you for being here, with me, now. Thank you for showing up for yourself, and meeting me here.
Presence is an overarching theme in my work, along with self-love and peace of mind. It is what brings me into every moment, and it’s my intention to be a container for you, and a reflection of the truth (whatever that may be for you). This is my work. This is your work. With every person who chooses to show up and connect, deeply, into who they are (who we all are), the more authentic and free we feel, and the better the connections we make.
I’m learning to feel comfortable feeling vulnerable. It’s a process, but a valuable one. I’ve learned authenticity comes hand in hand with vulnerability, and creates stronger and more intimate and fulfilling connections. There is a beautiful quote by Jeff Foster about truth and love, and I wanted to share it with you, as an example of what happens when I meet someone in a safe space of non-judgement. It can seem a little intimidating at first, but thankfully those that know and work with me regularly tell me that I’m not at all scary and make them feel comfortable very quickly.
LOVE’S DEEPER COMMITMENT
The future is so unknown, and we are so fluid, and tired of pretending that we know.
Our thoughts and feelings are ever-changing, uncontrollable, like a wild ocean of love.
Our desires wax and wane; our dreams are born and die in every moment.
Let’s not commit to a form [of love]. The forms are always shifting, like the tides.
We do not need security here. We are not seeking comfort, but Truth.
Let’s make a deeper commitment; one that cannot be broken or lost.
To presence. To meeting in the here-and-now.
To bringing all of ourselves. To knowing, and letting ourselves be known.
To telling the truth, today; knowing that our truth may change tomorrow.
To bowing before each other, even if our hearts are broken and tender.
No promises, no guarantees.
This is my intention for every connection I make, whether it’s one email exchange or a lifetime partnership. I want to know what you feel right now, in this moment, and I want you to feel safe to feel it, whatever it might be. I want you to find the worthiness and peacefulness you crave.
I invite you to explore the rest of this space using the links at the top of the page or below to find out more about me and how I can support you.
You are more than enough. You are perfect.
From my heart to yours, I honour you.
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Integrative Counselling
A safe space for you to explore whatever is troubling you, with someone who won’t judge you and will support you in healing the past and setting up more nourishing patterns for the future. Learn more
Life Coaching
Helping you create the future you want, in a way that feels graceful and peaceful. A strong container for growth and development which can be combined with counselling for an holistic approach. Learn more
client appreciation
So just wanted to say a massive THANK YOU for what you do, for your work and for being so AWESOME!
You are a remarkable lady with a big warm heart and I am forever grateful for all your help.
On the Blog
Trust
I've been playing around a lot with the idea of trust recently and this is where I've ended up. I am often asked, how do I learn to trust? I don't know if it is a learning, but more a doing: a decision. At some point, you must take a leap of faith. No amount of...
Feelings
If you think you need to change your feelings depending on whether on not someone can handle them, please stop. Your feelings are your feelings. They are not symbiotic with another person's pain or happiness. Your feelings are just that: how you feel. They do not have...
Blocking happiness
I noticed last week that I have a tendency sometimes to limit my joy. Sometimes things are going great and I get a little niggle, a small voice that whispers, 'but when will it go wrong?'I noticed that I was actually not fully leaning in to things or experiences that...
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