gratefully received...

When I signed up for Clarity, Compassion & Confidence it felt like I was struggling with pretty much everything. I was stretched thin. Wanted to make changes personally, professionally and emotionally but didn’t know how. I was riddled in fears and semi aware of it but that terrified me more.I was just stuck in the no mans land of everything.

Having completed the program, I have rediscovered a sense of who I am and what I want to experience and achieve in my life. My focus is on creating/cocreating and achieving the intentions I put out in the world.

I honestly feel that anything I am interested in is possible. If my heart and desire are truly there, nothing can stop me from living a life I want and would be proud of.

I recently discovered I was co-dependent. I was drained and unhappy with myself and very resentful. But I thought that was something I have to accept and live with.

I feel like I am able to set and hold my boundaries a lot better than I used to. I feel bigger (figuratively) and I speak more authentically and more bold. Even my hand writing has gotten bigger!

The biggest question I had about this shift in my life was, “Will I still care for others?’ Now, I know it’s possible to be caring and empathetic to others while still caring for myself and doing what is best for me.

I got way more than I expected from the program. The last module was my favorite as I struggled with boundaries the most. It didn’t take me long to see a significant change in my ability to hold on to my boundaries.

This program will get you where you want to be if you are serious about changing. It’s worth it. It really creates the feelings of being free and light. At least that’s what it did for me. And I say thank you to God who brought me and Emma together.

I really enjoyed our sessions and I feel like I’ve made incredible progress with Your Selfish Identity. I feel so lucky that I had this opportunity and my life has been forever changed. I’m SO grateful to you!!!

I felt I could say anything to you. I felt like you really created a safe container for me during the sessions and the programme worked like clockwork so I could see that I made big leaps at every session.
I learned most that I don’t need to be apologetic for who I am. I am a lot more self-aware and through the sessions, I have developed ninja-like reflexes when noticing negative self-talk. I am happily selfish and excited that I can finally feel and know deep down that I am falling in love with myself. ❤

Your calm and focussed approach was very helpful and ensured I was relaxed enough to open up during our Skype chat. I felt at ease when talking about things that are hard to admit, and it was good to hear that this is a normal feeling and you provided me with quick and simple tools to help me!

You picked up that I could benefit from a bigger network and sent some connections for me immediately after our chat which was really helpful.
You are definitely in the right job and I am so grateful to have made a connection with you as I continue on my journey of transition to my purpose too – knowing that there are people ahead of you cheering you on is priceless!

Emma I love your meditations. Your voice really carries me away. I’m learning so much from your wisdom. You ARE, without doubt, living your purpose.

I cannot express how grateful I am for all your understanding and patience listening to me over the past few months. Thank you!

It became clear to me that since we had our session, my CONFIDENCE has improved massively, I feel FOCUSED & CONNECTED especially since I am trusting in my INTUITION these days! Yep, slowly over the last few months I have been getting more in touch with myself. I have come to understand how I connect to this world. What I also realise is that I am most in tune with the world when I am in tune with MYSELF. Whenever I listen to my intuition I know how I truly, deeply, authentically feel about something. It’s powerful stuff!

So just wanted to say a massive THANK YOU for what you do, for your work and for being so AWESOME!

Thank you for being very patient and to listening to me rant on. I will always be keen to refer people on to you, so watch this space!

Thank you for opening the door of a new life chapter and leading me through from the dark in to the light and hope.

You are a remarkable lady with a big warm heart and I am forever grateful for all your help.

I have a new awareness around what I need most at the moment, which is to fully engage with my power – the opportunity to build on this is fantastic. I feel as if I have been plugged into an electric socket! All jangly. Also, you gave me an amazing (and very useful) bit of intuitive information.

How did our work help you in general?
Our work helped me examine the motives for my anxiety and disarm them, either by disproving them or by learning better coping techniques; therefore lowering the general level of my anxiety.
A huge benefit was having a safe space to speak my thoughts out loud. I tend to get stuck in my head with repetitive, often toxic thoughts and then I feel trapped because I feel horrible for having these thoughts, but can’t talk about them. Beyond just releasing those thoughts, hearing you question them and help me get to the root of them was amazing. Sometimes, a thought that had been plaguing me for months lost its power altogether.
I have also been consistently improving in self-care in the past few months and I attribute that to our chats. You helped me see that taking care of myself was not only ok, but necessary to prevent burning out on everyone else.
What did you like about working with me specifically?
You have such a calming voice and I could feel over the phone that you were listening and thinking through what I was saying. You never rushed to give easy conclusions, but had a gentle way of leading me to realize the fallacies in my thoughts. And you were personable. I liked talking to you and looked forward to our chats, even though I always ended up crying.
Any reservations you had and whether these were removed during our work together?
I definitely had some fear about the things that would come out of my mouth. Some of the thoughts I had around my marriage and my family life felt like only a terrible person could feel that way, but you were so calm and non-judgmental that I soon started letting it all come out. It wasn’t just a “well, I don’t know this person, so who cares if she thinks I’m horrible,” but you really made me feel like it was ok to feel that way and that I could work to change that. This helped me shift the focus from beating myself up for having those thoughts and feelings to accepting them and working to move past them.

When I came to you I was feeling stressed generally and negative about my future. I was lonely.You allowed me to fix me, which was very important. I loved how some suggestions, aimed at one thing, opened up a whole new other area for me. I never cease to be amazed at that. I felt safe and secure in your care.I have been feeling wonderful, enthusiastic about life, more positive, relaxed, content, and very happy. Thank you. I feel more powerful, content, and happy.

Emma is amazing : she helped me sort the mess in my mind in simple steps and introduced me to a new technique I wasn’t aware of…