An invitation to compassion

An invitation to compassion

A little invitation to self-compassion:It’s OK if your trauma is still showing up. Maybe it has a message for you. Maybe your body freezing, or your impulse to attack or run away, is actually your body trying to tell you that the circumstances in which it finds...
Making changes and still feeling triggered…

Making changes and still feeling triggered…

Sometimes it’s easier to explain something verbally instead of writing it down, but I’ve also added a transcript below in case you prefer it. I hope this helps! Video Transcript: Good morning. I wanted to share something, and I was going to write it down...
Shame and Transparency

Shame and Transparency

There’s a concept in A Course in Miracles called ‘no private thoughts’. As it suggests, it speaks to the idea that instead of trying to hold thoughts in our private brain somewhere and keep them secret (normally for fear of being judged somehow), we...

What I’m learning about love

What I’m learning about love…We think that if we love too much, we will somehow run out.We’ve all had the experience of loving someone or something so much, that when we don’t get back what we expected, wanted or thought we deserved, we feel...
Trying to be a good person

Trying to be a good person

‘Trying’ to be a good person misses one key fact: there are no good or bad people, just people acting out of integrity with themselves and out of fear. It also implies that there’s a right and wrong way to behave, and some how you’ve been...
Surrender

Surrender

I’m currently working with a dog trainer for my dog Tilly. Moving to another country and culture having lived a pretty quiet life in rural Wales is an adjustment for us both and having some guidance and support so she feels safe and secure is super important for...