In one year…

In one year…

Today marks the end of a pretty big year for me. I officially graduated from my year-long Ministerial Devotional Training Programme based on A Course in Miracles. Signing up to this programme coincided with a few pivotal life events for me. I moved out of my tiny...
What is the answer?

What is the answer?

I was reminded of something in my meditation today, and thought it might be helpful for someone else too.I’ve often shared how life is a reflection of our internal beliefs – our world witnesses how we think and feel about ourselves and others. When we see...
You cannot be everything to everyone

You cannot be everything to everyone

You can only do the best you can do.Just a little reminder as everyone gets a little end-of-year / festive season worn out / over excited….If Christmas sucks for you, it sucks and I’m sorry. It doesn’t matter why, but if you just want it to be over...
Love is not earned

Love is not earned

Love is not earned. It is not something you ‘deserve’ if you meet certain conditions set down by others or society. Conditional love is an oxymoron. If it’s conditional, it’s not love. It’s coercive control.We often think of this in terms...
Shame and Transparency

Shame and Transparency

There’s a concept in A Course in Miracles called ‘no private thoughts’. As it suggests, it speaks to the idea that instead of trying to hold thoughts in our private brain somewhere and keep them secret (normally for fear of being judged somehow), we...

What I’m learning about love

What I’m learning about love…We think that if we love too much, we will somehow run out.We’ve all had the experience of loving someone or something so much, that when we don’t get back what we expected, wanted or thought we deserved, we feel...