by Emma | Jul 31, 2021 | Blog, Relationships, Self-Worth, Spirituality
There’s a thinking in ACIM that if we attack or judge another, in any way, we essentially end up attacking ourselves, and feeling whatever we projected out, like a boomerang. The judger always feels judged, the rejector always feels rejected, the attacker always...
by Emma | Jul 8, 2021 | Blog, Confidence, Resources, Self-Worth
Maybe people think that they require discipline in order to thrive. They think that if they weren’t harsh and strict with themselves, they would fall off the wagon and live in squalor, eating take out and never exercising, forgetting to call loved ones or go to...
by Emma | Jun 28, 2021 | Blog, Resources, Self-Worth
I’ve been watching this little bubble emerge on my driveway the last week or so. Finally, I saw an actual living plant sprout up through the tarmac. Many would call it a weed, and an annoyance since it broke up perfectly good tarmac, but I see it as a...
by Emma | Jun 25, 2021 | Blog, Resources, Self-Worth
When we experience trauma, our survival instincts kick in. Sometimes we replay the events over and over, trying to work out exactly what happened, why and how it could have been prevented. We try to understand it. Other times we withdraw. We tell ourselves it’s...
by Emma | Jun 15, 2021 | Blog, Relationships, Self-Worth
Your reaction to peoples’ behaviour is a mirror into your soul. Your triggers are signposts towards unhealed parts of yourself – the parts you often deny; the parts that are often linked to not feeling good enough. You can choose to be grateful for these...
by Emma | Jun 14, 2021 | Blog, Confidence, Relationships, Self-Worth
I’ve been playing around a lot with the idea of trust recently and this is where I’ve ended up. I am often asked, how do I learn to trust? I don’t know if it is a learning, but more a doing: a decision. At some point, you must take a leap of faith....
