Reticular Activating System

Reticular Activating System

What is the Reticular Activating System?A bundle of nerves in your brain which controls the filtration of external stimuli and can influence your feelings and behaviour as a result.Part of it’s role is to let in stuff that supports your beliefs in order to avoid...
High standards

High standards

One of the biggest things I’ve committed to and have been navigating this last year or so is holding myself to a higher standard and to be the best version of myself that I can be. I guess this has been and will be a lifetime commitment for me, but this last...
Act accordingly

Act accordingly

If you can imagine what you want and how you want to feel, you can also pay attention to the type of person you would need to experience that reality. How would that person feel about themselves? How would they think? How would they behave? What beliefs would they...
You’re not who you will be

You’re not who you will be

You will not be who you are now a year from now. You will not be who you are now tomorrow. We forget this. We make plans. We worry. We want to know what will happen, how we will get to where we want to be. We think where we want to be now, will be where we will want...
Perpetuating the cycle

Perpetuating the cycle

Sometimes our self-sabotaging relational patterns show up in the form of beautiful people – the perfect mixture of growth and comfort, all in one nicely wrapped package of synchronicity and chance meeting. It’s so confusing, mixing up familiarity with...
Making friends

Making friends

Making friends as an adult can be really hard. I’m also not about to share with you my 3 best tips to help you. I don’t have them, and I don’t think it’s as easy as that. As someone who’s spent the majority of their 30s bouncing around...