Our egos

Our egos

Our egos are programmed to find something wrong. Whether it be the body part we don’t love when we’re on the beach, the place we live, how appreciated we feel at work or a relationship that just won’t seem to heal, no matter how much work you do on...
Questions to ask yourself

Questions to ask yourself

Some important questions to continually reflect on:Can you be kind: to yourself, and others?Can you suspend your judgement: of yourself and others?Can you keep reaching for grace and love, whilst honouring all the other feelings?Can you show your heart, even if others...
You’re not who you will be

You’re not who you will be

You will not be who you are now a year from now. You will not be who you are now tomorrow. We forget this. We make plans. We worry. We want to know what will happen, how we will get to where we want to be. We think where we want to be now, will be where we will want...
Bereavement and beliefs

Bereavement and beliefs

Whilst I was training, I worked at a bereavement centre, counselling clients who had lost someone, often in traumatic circumstances, sometimes not. I have no preference as to what other people believe, but what I noticed was that those who believed in some form of...