An invitation to compassion

An invitation to compassion

A little invitation to self-compassion:It’s OK if your trauma is still showing up. Maybe it has a message for you. Maybe your body freezing, or your impulse to attack or run away, is actually your body trying to tell you that the circumstances in which it finds...
Making changes and still feeling triggered…

Making changes and still feeling triggered…

Sometimes it’s easier to explain something verbally instead of writing it down, but I’ve also added a transcript below in case you prefer it. I hope this helps! Video Transcript: Good morning. I wanted to share something, and I was going to write it down...
Shame and Transparency

Shame and Transparency

There’s a concept in A Course in Miracles called ‘no private thoughts’. As it suggests, it speaks to the idea that instead of trying to hold thoughts in our private brain somewhere and keep them secret (normally for fear of being judged somehow), we...

What I’m learning about love

What I’m learning about love…We think that if we love too much, we will somehow run out.We’ve all had the experience of loving someone or something so much, that when we don’t get back what we expected, wanted or thought we deserved, we feel...
Being supportive

Being supportive

I often talk to clients about the difference between enabling and supporting loved ones. I’ve had to learn this lesson myself, many times.We cannot take responsibility for anyone other than ourselves. We must learn to trust the ones we love to do what is best...
Boundaries and A Course in Miracles

Boundaries and A Course in Miracles

When we put boundaries in place we’re not saying ‘I reject you’ but instead ‘I reject this version of you which you are currently choosing because I know it’s not the truth of who you are’.A Course in Miracles teaches that we are...