Surfing

Surfing

Today I quit surfing. I first really learned to surf in Sri Lanka a few years ago, and enjoyed it, but since then it’s definitely become something I’ve had to coax myself into (not helped by English oceans and weather). I’m not sure why it took me so...
Choices

Choices

We make thousands of choices every day. Mostly without thinking. Our brains learn patterns and choose what’s best for us based on our beliefs and past experience. It’s a really useful thing. It is also what keeps us doing the same unhelpful stuff, time...
A little update

A little update

Just a little update from me… I’m in Portugal for a little while, exploring beaches, surfing, making new friends and getting some sun on my face. I’m seeing clients as normal but loving getting a bit more balance back in my life after a couple of...
Stop imagining

Stop imagining

Stop imagining what isn’t there.If you’re thinking more than one step ahead, stop. Controversial advice I know. Probably not as helpful if you’re flying a plane or some such thing. However, for everything else that’s going on in your head, if...
Judgement

Judgement

Sometimes forgiveness comes really easily to me, othertimes it requires consistent effort – to catch the judgemental thoughts, the times I’m attacking with my mind. So much of what we do is unconscious. It’s not until we decide we want to notice,...