by Emma | Dec 21, 2024 | Blog, Heart Words, Relationships
You can only do the best you can do.Just a little reminder as everyone gets a little end-of-year / festive season worn out / over excited….If Christmas sucks for you, it sucks and I’m sorry. It doesn’t matter why, but if you just want it to be over...
by Emma | Jul 29, 2024 | Blog, Heart Words, Relationships, Spirituality
Love is not earned. It is not something you ‘deserve’ if you meet certain conditions set down by others or society. Conditional love is an oxymoron. If it’s conditional, it’s not love. It’s coercive control.We often think of this in terms...
by Emma | Jun 23, 2024 | Blog, Confidence, Heart Words, Relationships, Self-Worth, Spirituality
There’s a concept in A Course in Miracles called ‘no private thoughts’. As it suggests, it speaks to the idea that instead of trying to hold thoughts in our private brain somewhere and keep them secret (normally for fear of being judged somehow), we...
by Emma | May 19, 2024 | Blog, Confidence, Heart Words, Relationships, Self-Worth, Spirituality
What I’m learning about love…We think that if we love too much, we will somehow run out.We’ve all had the experience of loving someone or something so much, that when we don’t get back what we expected, wanted or thought we deserved, we feel...
by Emma | Apr 28, 2024 | Blog, Heart Words, Relationships, Spirituality
I had this quote printed and framed to hang in my kitchen. It means I get to read it many times a day.I’m also getting plenty of opportunities to learn what it means and practice it.For those who don’t know, I’m currently in a year long ministerial...
by Emma | Feb 18, 2024 | Blog, Relationships, Self-Worth
I often talk to clients about the difference between enabling and supporting loved ones. I’ve had to learn this lesson myself, many times.We cannot take responsibility for anyone other than ourselves. We must learn to trust the ones we love to do what is best...
