Make healing easier

Make healing easier

Perhaps there’s an argument that putting a band aid (plaster for the Brits amongst us) on a wound won’t fix anything. It will simply give the wearer the ability to pretend everything is OK and allow them to mask their feelings and pain.This is absolutely...
Boundaries and Surrender

Boundaries and Surrender

Boundaries, surrender, flow and autism is an interesting mix. As someone who really advocates for strong boundaries, I also understand that they only work if you really believe in them. All the parts of you have to be agreed that this boundary is a non-negotiable. I...
Surrender

Surrender

I’m currently working with a dog trainer for my dog Tilly. Moving to another country and culture having lived a pretty quiet life in rural Wales is an adjustment for us both and having some guidance and support so she feels safe and secure is super important for...
Peace

Peace

Peace is not something we go find outside of ourselves. That’s always annoyed me a bit. Peace seems very illusive sometimes. We want it, but we also don’t always know how to ‘get’ it. Where is this ‘peace’? Where does it live? If...
Integrity

Integrity

I’ve been thinking a lot about integrity recently. It’s a word that has taken on a strong meaning for me in recent years. To be in integrity with yourself means to be integrated: as one with oneself.When we don’t feel right within ourselves...