Do you secretly love it?

Secretly love what? I hear you ask. Well, I’m so glad you asked. This is the article I spoke about a week or so (I forget) ago – the one about secondary gains and hidden agendas. Basically, most of us, whether we like to admit it or not, at one time or another, choose...

The biggest time waster in your life

Want to know what the single biggest time waster in your life is (probably)? It is…wait for it…THINKING. Or rather over-thinking.   As you can see from the flow-chart above, it’s amazing how much time we can use up thinking about things, doubting ourselves and...

What’s holding you back?

I recently went through some dramatic life changes, spurred on by seemingly overnight life-altering decisions, taken by me, and although it seemed like these decisions had literally taken years to make, once I had actually made them and committed to them, everything...

Are you who you say you are?

Are you being genuine? Or are you acting out a part; being who you think people want you to be? This is a question I’ve found myself asking a lot recently. I’m sure we’ve all done it before – talked ourselves up at interviews, put on a slightly...

How badly do you want it?

There is a common misconception that if you want something really badly, you have to work super duper hard to get it. I’d like to challenge this idea.   The whole concept of the law of attraction tells us that the universe is abundant i.e. there is more...