I’m only as good as this moment

I’m only as good as this moment

Something occurred to me today. If we consider time as the flexible entity that it is, in that the past doesn’t actually exist anywhere but in our memories and the future doesn’t exist at all and is purely speculative, we only have the present moment. The...

Trusting in the Universe

I think we’ve all had times when we’ve felt like we just aren’t strong enough. Like there’s so much stuff going on we just don’t know if we’re going to make it through, and sometimes, we even question why we might want to. I...
How to trust yourself

How to trust yourself

I’ll be completely honest here, I’m still learning how to trust myself. I think it will be an on-going journey. You think you’ve got it sussed, then someone or something betrays you and you have to reassess and recalibrate. Were you wrong in trusting...
How to deal with control issues

How to deal with control issues

I don’t know about you, but I have a tendency to be a bit controlling when it comes to, well, life. I’m what I like to call a recovering control freak. I have control issues. That means that basically, I have less freak outs than I used to. This week...
Learning to let go

Learning to let go

It’s the hardest and the easiest thing in the world to do. ‘Just let it go.’ We get told over and over again (well, those of us who have a tendency to be just a tad neurotic about things) that our lives would be so much simpler if we could just let...
How to learn from experience

How to learn from experience

Isn’t it funny how, just when you think you’ve turned a corner and your life is going to finally and miraculously come together, life decides to throw you a couple of curve balls, seemingly just to keep you on your toes? I’ve had a couple of them...