Closed, not locked
Closing a door so you can heal or honour yourself does not mean it has to stay closed forever.I’ve been reflecting a lot on boundaries this week, and how strong boundaries must also be flexible boundaries. Needing to “close the door” to someone or...
Trying to be a good person
‘Trying’ to be a good person misses one key fact: there are no good or bad people, just people acting out of integrity with themselves and out of fear. It also implies that there’s a right and wrong way to behave, and some how you’ve been...
Relationships
I’m on the first weekend of a training for me to learn how to facilitate therapeutic groups. Understandably a big part of this training is around group dynamics and becoming really aware of our own processes and how we all affect each other.Reflecting on this...