There’s a good chance I’m autistic

There’s a good chance I’m autistic

There’s a good chance I’m autistic. As a therapist, you might assume I’d have figured this important fact out a little earlier than the 38 years I’ve been living in this body, but apparently our blind spots can be quite big sometimes.That said,...
Making changes

Making changes

For those in the ‘I KNOW I’m doing it, but I still do it!’ frustrating stage of changing a habit or pattern of behaviour….Think of your change in terms of stages. You start off not knowing what you’re doing or not doing that’s not...
Ho’oponopono

Ho’oponopono

Ho’oponopono is an Hawaiian healing practice, based on the principle that we are 100% responsible for everything that appears in our lives. This doesn’t mean we consciously chose it, but it allows us to take back control and heal it (it is an empowering...
Right or happy?

Right or happy?

Would you rather be happy, or right? Maybe you can be both, but if you’re defending your position or arguing with someone, you’re giving up your happiness and peace of mind in order to be right.
Boundaries 101

Boundaries 101

Too many people try to create and stick to boundaries to stop themselves saying yes when they mean no, no when they mean yes and generally getting walked all over BEFORE they get really clear on who they are. When you’re solid on who you are and what you want,...
You get to leave

You get to leave

This may sound obvious, but unless you are actually imprisoned (and I appreciate that is a very real situation for many right now) you get to leave a situation if it doesn’t feel safe, if it triggers you or makes you uncomfortable. Your experience is valid. That...