You cannot be everything to everyone

You cannot be everything to everyone

You can only do the best you can do.Just a little reminder as everyone gets a little end-of-year / festive season worn out / over excited….If Christmas sucks for you, it sucks and I’m sorry. It doesn’t matter why, but if you just want it to be over...
The past is over

The past is over

The second part of the workbook of A Course In Miracles groups the lessons together in blocks of ten which an over-arching theme for each block. The current block (if you started with Lesson one on 1st January) seems especially poignant and helpful for me at the...
Love is not earned

Love is not earned

Love is not earned. It is not something you ‘deserve’ if you meet certain conditions set down by others or society. Conditional love is an oxymoron. If it’s conditional, it’s not love. It’s coercive control.We often think of this in terms...
Shame and Transparency

Shame and Transparency

There’s a concept in A Course in Miracles called ‘no private thoughts’. As it suggests, it speaks to the idea that instead of trying to hold thoughts in our private brain somewhere and keep them secret (normally for fear of being judged somehow), we...

What I’m learning about love

What I’m learning about love…We think that if we love too much, we will somehow run out.We’ve all had the experience of loving someone or something so much, that when we don’t get back what we expected, wanted or thought we deserved, we feel...