Don't fight the struggle. If it feels stressful, or like you're battling with something that doesn't seem to want you to have what you want, stop. Wait. Accept what is and allow yourself to have patience and trust that whatever is meant for you is perfect, on it's way, and will arrive with ease and grace. Rest in what is. Sometimes we get so caught up in what we've decided we want or the way it's supposed to be that we don't even realise we're stressing and pushing against ourselves. This is not how it is supposed to be! When we notice this, we can stop trying and allow instead. Just be with what is, knowing that everything is as it's supposed to be having been fighting against myself for the last week or so on many many things