No need to be a dick about it, but yeah, you need to look after yourself and let everyone else look after themselves. A lot of caring folk get themselves all messed up with this concept. Here's the thing: You can't 'make' someone else happy. Only they can do that for themselves. You taking responsibility for their happiness only disempowers them from being able to create their own happiness. Honour them by supporting them, and honour yourself by knowing that making yourself happy will allow you to show up in a more positive way in the world to support those who ask for it. If you're ready for focused and personalised support, coaching and mentoring to empower you to create your own happiness, both in relationships and in yourself, applications are open for the True You Collective - the link's in my bio for all the details <3